March, 2014

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Why Young Leaders Drive Old Leaders Crazy

Leadership Freak

'Young leaders are full of p**s and vinegar because they haven’t failed enough. Old leaders look down their noses and think, “You’ll smarten up after you get knocked down a few times.

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Five Keys to Delegation That Works

Kevin Eikenberry

'Delegation is something that every leader has feelings about. Some feel they do it well. Some don’t even know where to start. Some have seen a good example of it. Some feel like every time someone has “delegated” to them, it felt like they’d just been dumped on. Some think it is something they should […].

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Ten Ways to Say Yes to Saying No

Leadership Freak

'Saying no feels like a door closing. But, those who can’t say no end up over-committed, overwhelmed, and ineffective. Saying no is the first step toward freedom for someone who says yes too much.

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15 Ways to Help Without Getting in the Way

Leadership Freak

'Helping done poorly is destructive. The need to help says more about your needs than theirs. 3 UN-helpful reasons you feel the need to help: Feel important. Elevate status. Look smart.

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SME Relationships: Proven Solutions for Seamless Collaboration and Success

Speaker: Tim Buteyn, President of ThinkingKap Learning Solutions

💢 Do you find yourself stuck in never-ending review cycles? Are you wondering if your Subject Matter Expert actually got that last review request? Are you having trouble trying to decipher impractical or conflicting feedback? 💢 If any of these scenarios sounds familiar, you may benefit from a crash course on managing SME relationships!

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8 Growth Principles that Transform Leadership

Leadership Freak

'Radical growth is the messiest – most painful – part of leadership. Death precedes life. Incremental growth is walking down familiar paths carrying the same assumptions.

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The Choice all Leaders Face

Leadership Freak

'The future of organizations is in the growth of the people in them. The more influence you have the more your growth is essential to the growth of your organization.

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10 Ways to Build Powerful Legacy Now

Leadership Freak

'Legacy is about life not death. Legacy isn’t tomorrow. Legacy is now. How people think of you now is how people will think of you then. Today’s footprint is tomorrow’s legacy.

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Seven Reasons Smart Leaders Get Dumb

Leadership Freak

'Power makes leaders dumb. The more power you gain the dumber you get. Image source There are at least seven dumbing effects of power. Power*: Reduces the complexity of your thinking. You over-simplify.

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The Proven Path to T.R.U.S.T.

Leadership Freak

'Everything takes longer when you don’t trust those around you. Mistrust doubles the cost of doing business. Professor John Whitney, Columbia Business School. 5 qualities of low trust organizations: Redundancy. Bureaucracy. Politics. Disengagement.

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7 Ways to Deal with Office Drama

Leadership Freak

'Everyone knows the drama kings/queens in the office. They’re the ones you dance around. “Don’t upset Barry.” Drama queens go to the boss rather than colleagues to voice complaints.

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Change Management 101: A Practical 3 Part Guide

Implementing new tools or business processes in your organization? Lemon Learning put together a practical 3 part guide to prevent the pitfalls of change management. Drive a successful change management project from diagnosis through to measurement.

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Shut-Up and Do It Yourself

Leadership Freak

'I was explaining how to do something when a close friend said, “Do it yourself.” I have a love-hate relationship with my life-long friend Tim. (Mostly love.

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Solving Leadership Isolation with Connection

Leadership Freak

'Leaders lay awake at night wondering what’s really happening. You wonder, “Who should I touch base with? Isolation prevents you from feeling the pulse of your organization.

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Why Old Leaders Drive Young Leaders Crazy

Leadership Freak

'Old leaders think they know something today because they knew something yesterday. Knowledge closes their minds and limits their curiosity.

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Fresh Fuel for Dry Tanks

Leadership Freak

'If you can getting there on an empty tank, getting there doesn’t matter. Your tank is empty because you drained it. Empty because you: Give, give, give.

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Is Training the Right Solution?

Speaker: Tim Buteyn

Let's set the scene: you’ve identified a critical performance gap in your organization and need to close that gap. A colleague suggests training, but you suspect there’s something going on that training can’t address. How can you determine if training is the right solution before you commit your budget and resources to a new training program? In this webinar, you will learn how to determine if training is the right solution using the Behavior Engineering Model.

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The Signature File that got me Chewed Out

Leadership Freak

'The story in your head always finds expression in your life. But, it’s dangerous when behaviors and attitudes are based on fabrications. He doesn’t like me. I’m not appreciated.

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How to Say Yes to New Ideas Without Going Nuts

Leadership Freak

'The trouble with new ideas are the ones that didn’t work. But, organizations that consistently kill new ideas drive nails in their own coffins. The bondage of old ideas is they worked, once.

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The Most Challenging Leadership Skill of All

Leadership Freak

'Leave a comment on this post for a chance to win one of twenty-five copies of, “STARTUP LEADERSHIP,” by Derek Lidow. Derek sold his last company for $100 million, in 2010.

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15 Secrets to Overcoming the Dark Side of Dreaming

Leadership Freak

'Lofty dreams have a dark side when they devalue slow, incremental progress. Don’t wait for giant leaps toward noble dreams. Successful leaders bringing dreams to life in the present.

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Revitalizing Dry Content: A Lesson in Engagement

Speaker: Tim Buteyn, President of ThinkingKap Learning Solutions

We’ve all been there. You’ve been given a pile of dry content and asked to create a compelling eLearning course. You’re determined to create something more engaging than the same old course that learners quickly click through, but how do you take this “boring” content and create something relevant and engaging? Many instructional designers will say, “Boring in means boring out.

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How to Lead Like Ellen DeGeneres

Leadership Freak

'Negative focus creates negative environments. But, successful leaders build energizing environments. Your primary influence is the environment you create.” Peter Senge Lead like a comedian: Comedians influence others. Leadership is influence.

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One Thing That Always Defeats Confusion

Leadership Freak

'Confused people think everything matters equally. Never give all thoughts and options equal weight. The four results of confusion are: Doubt. Fear. Inaction.

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12 Strategies for Dealing with Worry

Leadership Freak

'Leaders who use worry as the reason to do nothing are losers. But, successful leaders worry. I’ve come to appreciate and respect the worries of my team. Trust worried leaders; doubt the rest.

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Tapping the Fear-side of Motivation

Leadership Freak

'People who aren’t afraid aren’t going far. Fear is the secret heat behind fiery passion. Without fear, passion is transitory, weak, unfocused, and ineffective. Find and acknowledge your fears.

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Brain Fog HQ: Memory Enhancement Techniques for Professional Development

Speaker: Chester Santos – Author, International Keynote Speaker, Executive Coach, Corporate Trainer, Memory Expert, U.S. Memory Champion

In October, scientists discovered that 75% of patients who experienced brain fog had a lower quality of life at work than those who did not. At best, brain fog makes you slower and less efficient. At worst, your performance and cognitive functions are impaired, resulting in memory, management, and task completion problems. In this entertaining and interactive presentation, Chester Santos, "The International Man of Memory," will assist you in developing life-changing skills that will greatly enha

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10 Practical Ways to Enhance Team Dynamics

Leadership Freak

'Listen for the sucking sound of money going down the drain when lousy teams take on projects. Stop wasting time on teams that waste time.

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Resolving Tension Between Young and Old Leaders

Leadership Freak

'“You’re challenge is giving control to young leaders.” (Spoken to an old leader at lunch three years ago.) He was a quiet gentleman.

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How to Lead Like Ellen DeGeneres Part Deux

Leadership Freak

'Ellen DeGeneres is a person of influence because she’s not intimidating. The look on her face says, “I want you to like me.” It’s not a needy look. But, it borders on insecurity.

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7 Cures for Cruelty

Leadership Freak

'“All cruelty springs from weakness.” Seneca Image source Cruel leaders believe they’re helping when they’re hurting.

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Choose Assets Over Deficits

Leadership Freak

'You see what’s bad before you see what’s good. Kathy Cramer told me our negativity bias invites us to see and respond more intensely to problems than possibilities.

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Fight for Bright: 3 Aspects of Asset Based Thinking

Leadership Freak

'Pessimists feel optimistic about Murphy’s law. I’m so much of a pessimist that I think optimists are faking. Talking about optimism irritates true pessimists. I’m not alone.

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How to Lead Like Billy Graham

Leadership Freak

'People change us most. Michael Hyatt recounts a meeting he had with Billy Graham in 1983.

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How We Screw Up Feedback

Kevin Eikenberry

'Over the years, I’ve come to believe, and have told many groups, that feedback often says as much about us as it does the performance about which we are giving feedback. Even if you wouldn’t go quite that far, it is safe to say that it is difficult/impossible for our feedback not to be, at […].

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Who is Your Hero?

Kevin Eikenberry

'Last Sunday, much of the world watched the Academy Awards. While I read a book instead, I did see Matthew McConaughey’s acceptance speech on Monday morning. Today’s quotation comes from that speech. While there are other valuable lessons from his speech, this nine word snippet gives all of us something to think about. Questions to […].

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Gallup is Wrong, and You Should be Happy

Kevin Eikenberry

'Gallup is a very smart organization and they do many things well. They also provide great services to organizations and those that lead them, especially in understanding the problem, challenges and solution to employee engagement. But their findings in some recently reported research could potentially be a major disservice to those same leaders. Here’s my […].